No but really
Negativity is contagious and you don't want any of that nastiness I promise!
The funny thing is if you hang around negative people and you're a positive person at first you will feel like you can share that positivity with them and that is fine. But do not extend your positive energy so much so that you run low and don't have enough for yourself.
Because those people really do get the same 24 hours in the day as you do. And yes people have different challenges, but it is always relative, there hard might be different then your hard, but it could still be the hardest thing you have had to deal with.
No matter what card you have been dealt make the best of it. Deciding to feel bad only does one thing... it makes you feel bad. Deciding to feel good only does one thing, it makes you feel good! But it also allows you to share that good with others and enjoy what you do have. Feeling bad does not bring anything good into your life. SO FEEL GOOD and enjoy what you have right now.
So the if and butts along with the whens and thens. All you have is now and what you are willing to do with it.
Make sure that you are important to yourself. Do not surround yourself with people who tell you you need to change. You should work on yourself because you want to. Because you love you and because you're worth it.
Don't Let Others Tell You how to do You
You are the only one who knows what you want and what time schedule you are on, just make sure you are on a positive one and that is all that matters.
As long as you believe that is all that matters, then all you have to do is take your beliefs and turn them into facts
The people who help you on this journey are the ones you want around. Not the ones that suck your life, not the ones that doubt, not the ones that try to shove you in their perceived best direction. The ones that stand beside you and encourage you along the way.
Life is a party, enjoy it! Just don't have a pity party!